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Mega Millions Lottery Winner Holly Lahti's Story Marred by Jarring Mug Shot

Mega Millions Lottery Winner Holly Lahti's Story Marred by Jarring Mug Shot Pratlaw states: HERE IS ONE HUGE REASON TO GET DIVORCED RATHER THAN SEPARATE AND STAY MARRIED. WHATEVER YOU DO: DO NOT WIN THE LOTTERY WHEN YOU ARE JUST SEPARATED. GET DIVORCE!

STRATEGY

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The foundation of strategy in any family law case involving children is first and foremost what is in the child or children's best interest(s). Children, however, are not homogeneous, they are individuals so with multiple children an overall best interests is often not objectively obtainable when their individual best interests are investigated. The second element in strategy is preparation. It never ceases to amaze us how many cases are not prepared at all: Not ill prepared, but not prepared at all!   Budgets have to be scrutinized. Reasons|justifications have to be juxtaposed against a standard of reason. There is not a single thing that is "automatic" Call us to discuss your case and for representation 770-253-7778 or email us by going to one of our websites by clicking PRATLAW

Spring Family Law Review

The Spring 2010 review starts with a very good article about the cycle of violence against women, has a good article on parenting time guidelines and a more sophisticated article on division of a family business in a divorce. The spring issues always review legislative matters that relate to family law. Finally, there is the Case Law Update which is the single most important part of the publication to me. Here is the link: GA Spring Family Law Review

Pratlaw Ga Essay: JUDGES DO NOT LIKE A SOCRATIC EXERCISE...

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...when it comes to documents. Over the past 23 years I have come to appreciate the fact that Judges as a whole do not like being given documents with highlighted passages or handwritten notes beside the part of the document you think is important. Doing that is really close to a demand that the Court become a participant in the blind men and the elephant philosophical exercise about the scope of perception: The Blind Men And The Elephant Fable and they do not like the Socratic Method to the extreme of banality, i.e., rain is rain you cannot assert you do not understand it until someone explains it to you and you "feel" it. What all this means in plain English is: (a) The Judge controls his or her court room and no one else has any right to control it. So make a copy of any document you feel the urge to write on, so your lawyer can present the 'clean' one to the Judge and draw the Judge's attention to the passage you have highlighted in your 'dirty...

"The Best Money I Ever Spent"

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The variable that often imprisons parties in a dead-end relationship is a child or children. Children, however, are egocentric and are never going to grow into healthy adulthood when their upbringing is centered around a false, dead relationship from which they learn by observation that they never, ever, want to get involved with someone because it will be like being Mom or Dad. They need to be told once that the divorce was never about them but about Mom and Dad being at a dead end in their relationship. They will remember that and it will be the defining memory of the divorce: it wasn't about them. Children absorb everything they see, feel and experience: every nuance, gesture, sarcastic gesture, all the negative, unhappiness and bad going on between their Mom and their Dad. Sometimes the expense of ending a dead marriage is the best money ever spent not just for the liberation of the spouses but for the sunshine it can bring to a child in the middle of the "dead-zone"....

2010 BIG CHANGES FOR THE GOOD

R. KEITH PRATER, P.C. will change its name over the course of 2010 to PRATER & ASSOCIATES as Attorney John D. Duncan has associated with the Firm. Keith Prater is excited about the prospect of mentoring John in the beginning of his practice. John has worked hard to gain his law license and has since associating with the Firm proven himself more than capable, winning outright his first trial, a difficult modification of child support and medical payments case, and obtaining a Not Guilty verdict in his second trial in a misdemeanor case. John's association will allow the firm to handle all the calls coming in from prospective clients many of which were not being returned as the firm's practice grew so large over the past two years that on multiple occasions new prospective client calls were not returned because workload and returning existing client calls consumed the entire workday. We have since John cam on board in October been promptly returning calls more than 95% of the...

IF YOU CALL ME AND WE DON'T HIT IT OFF I WILL ...

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... REFER YOU TO ANOTHER GREAT LOCAL LAWYER OR TWO OR THREE TO CHOOSE FROM. THERE IS NO ONE GREAT WIZARD OF OZ LAWYER HERE OR ANYWHERE BUT THERE ARE A NUMBER OF REALLY GREAT ONES AROUND HERE |||| WITH THAT OUT OF THE WAY, here is a repost with solid logic for you to consider: First : always consult face to face with an attorney regarding any matter that is serious to you. Second : The ancient mathmatical logic mandate is alive and well today: "All things being equal the simplest answer is the correct answer". This is the anglicization of the latin maxim attributed to the mathematician Ockham, called "Ockham or Occam's Razor": Entia non sunt multiplicanda praeter necessitatem or "Entities should not be multiplied unnecessarily." Third : The 'Devil Is In The Details', always was, and always will be. || The hard decision is deciding when all things are in fact equal and what the things are that are equal. That is where experienced legal ...